CHANGE...

Things are no longer, perhaps what they once were.
But perhaps
                   they have remained the same.
Maybe over time and space, over the vastness between yesterday and today.
All things in retrospect are as they should be.
A perfect balance between universe's:
Ours and theirs, 
Yours and Mine.
But should there be a disharmony between planes, I WOULD BE TO BLAME.
                                              BECAUSE
the belief held is that THIS harmony IS NOT PERFECT.

Things are changing - But nothing changes.
And still - there ARE changes.

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Authors Note:

We are all responsible for causing change in our lives. I have a friend (or two) who although married still have what is called emotional affairs. There is no intimacy involved, none physically anyway. Although they love their husbands very much, when a man shows them interest, they are flattered that another man could see them in that light. Eventually, if the man continues to shower them with compliments and so forth, it leads to a relationship of sorts. One where they talk, and one where, she usually FALLS HARD for the guy. Temporarily. I know, It doesn't make any sense, does it?

It's been described as feeling as though you are head over heels in love, and feeling so attracted to this person. You cannot stop thinking about him, he's there, in your waking world, in your dreams, in your nightmares. He is the air that you breathe...and this continues for a while.

And then it's gone.

Ha, Ha!!! It just VANISHES!!!! Apparently NOT THE GUY, but the feelings associated with him. She looks at him afterward, and cannot fathom that she had feelings for him, just the other day! I know, I know: it was never true.
But - it also NEVER affected her marriage. Her husband, according to her never had a clue, he never does. As unfortunately she seems to attract these kinds of men all the time...Yes, given she is a beautiful woman, with a really nice personality, who doesn't look for this kind of attention. It just comes to her, and sometimes she attracts all the wrong kinds of attention and she finds herself frustrated beyond anything!

I guess that the point I am trying to make is: Sometimes a new experience, is good, even if it is negative. And it doesn't always have to change our lives.

But also keep in mind that there is no constant, nothing is static - not even your marriage... As I always tell a person for whom I am doing a Tarot reading: Just remember that NOTHING IS SET IN STONE.